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I know I’ve been gone for a couple of weeks now but as you know things really get hectic around the holidays.

So, let’s just jump right in.

There is always some way to communicate to your partner that you care. It can be a small gesture to let them know you’re thinking about them.

I recently spent some time with a friend of mine one evening and Terry stayed home to take care of the kids. Even though I was eating dinner out, I wanted to make sure that he had something at home as well.

I decided to make him his favorite Thai dish for dinner. He was so grateful!

As I’ve said many times before it doesn’t take much. It’s really the little details that make the most difference!

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A Hopeless Romantic,

Mel

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Touching your partner is romantic!

Have you touched your partner lately? And vice versa? I make it a point to touch my partner more these days. Especially, after reading the book, The Five Love Languages.

Now, I finally understand how important physical touch is to Terry. That’s his way of really knowing that I care and love him.

Touching your partner doesn’t only have to be in a sexual way. It can be the stroke of their hair or rubbing their back. All of these types of touch can be endearing. Touching has been found to have many other benefits as well.

Touching is one way to communicate to your partner that you love them.

So find out what it is that your partner likes and go for it:-)

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A Hopeful Romantic,

Mel

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When people say they just aren’t very romantic by nature, that’s usually a sign that something else is going on. After all, who doesn’t want to do special things for the person who means the most to them. If you ask, I’m sure that they would agree that pleasing their partner is pretty high on their list of priorities. (If it isn’t, all this romance talk is pointless anyway-it may be time for therapy!)

So what gives? How can someone want to please their partner but be unwilling (or unable) to do romantic things?

Often it comes down to one ugly, four letter word. (No, not that one…no, not that one either)

It’s F-E-A-R…fear!

To be romantic you have to be vulnerable. The minute you even think of doing something romantic all kinds of questions enter your mind. Thoughts like this one:

“What if I do my very best and she doesn’t like it?”

Nothing can make you feel more ashamed than having your thoughtful romantic gesture go unnoticed. Or worse, having it berated or laughed at. When this thought enters your mind the risks of putting yourself out there can seem to outweigh the benefits.

The truth is that I can’t guarantee that your partner will respect your gesture, even if you follow every romance tip on this blog!

In the end, you have to really consider who your partner is. If there is a history of disrespect or emotional abuse in your relationship foregoing romance may be the best option, at least until you can arrange to meet with a qualified therapist.

On the other hand, if you have a healthy relationship, introducing a little romance is probably a safe bet. Many times our fears are not based in reality but instead they are rooted in our desire to avoid the unfamiliar!

It may be easier to start with small romantic ideas and work your way up to more complex ones over time. That way you minimize your vulnerability while at the same time breaking out of old patterns and surprising the one you love!

Good luck in all of your efforts to thrill your partner!

Terry

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Have you ever put your own wants aside when you and your partner have a disagreement?
We all have a certain degree of pride. But, you would be surprised what happens when you put your own needs on hold for a moment.

Doing this allows you to focus on your partner not yourself. And, giving your partner what they’re lacking can be a very noble thing.

I promise you it will not go unnoticed. Your partner will definitely recognize it. Indirectly, more of your needs will get met too.

So, it’s true that you catch more flies with honey than vinegar(or is it bees :). Either way you get my drift. I’m not saying to be a sap and not stand your ground. But, it’s not always about you. It’s about “us” when you’re in a relationship.

And, the sooner you realize it, the better off the both of you will be.

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A Hopeful Romantic,

Mel

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